Ever heard someone say " he completes me?" I think its safe to say that majority of girls say this & not so many guys but you've heard it right? Or maybe you've even said it yourself. Maybe you haven't said it but your relationship might say otherwise. Before I continue, let me just say once again, everything I write I have learned myself. I'm not an expert on this or anything so don't judge me (: I don't want to appear as a "know it all" because I don't. I'm learning new things everyday.
The truth is nobody can complete you, only God can. If you go looking for a person to complete you then you're always going to fail. We all know those people who always seem to have a boyfriend/girlfriend right after another. Those people who can't be content with being single & honestly I thought I was like that for awhile. After I got out of a 3 year relationship I didn't know what to do with myself. I never tried to just be with random people but whenever I talked to guys I never understood why I just felt unfulfilled. I thought being single was terrible but after about a month I realized that there are plenty of good things about being single until the right person comes a long.
God finally showed me that he's the only one who can fulfil me. I kept waiting for this perfect guy to come along who was gonna be so much better than all the others & we would have this happy relationship & it would all be okay. God showed me that it's him that I needed. God is the only one who can be there for you EVERYDAY/ALLDAY & NEVER let you down. God is the only one who won't hurt you. Once I learned this I was happy being single. I wanted a boyfriend. I still want to get married eventually & share my life with someone but I know that he's not perfect. He's going to let me down & there's going to be times when we don't agree on everything. That doesn't mean that you should just pick anybody by any means because of the fact that they are going to let you down. It does mean that you follow God & that you rely on him. You put God FIRST. Not your boyfriend/girlfriend or anyone else for that matter. You can't put your hope into a relationship that may or may not last but God will always last. If you don't last then atleast God is there for you when it's over. You will find more contentment with being single because you don't rely on a human for your love/care. It comes from God. You're always going to be let down if you're looking for someone that doesn't exist. What you're looking for is God & I know because I was looking for him too (:
Anyways this is it for now. Hope it helps. Thanks for reading!
